She does not deserve the recognition. Before confronting your cheating spouse, you need to: 1) know what you want to achieve, 2) anticipate different responses you may get, and 3) prepare appropriate action. When he ended the affair, the in-laws were enraged and drove 8 hours to our city to "comfort her" since she was so devastated. This is the first time in my life that Ive lived alone, and its a little exhilarating. You don't want anything to do with it, and must consider quitting your marriage before wifey's fascination for strange hot dogs takes epidemic proportions. It's ours. With her 'bf' (the 'other guy') she is the $lut she always wanted to be, and has experienced multi men orgies etc which is simply unthinkable for her to imagine with her husband. To protect her. Don't get me wrong, he is ultimately to blame, as he made the commitment to me, but she really showed her true colors which made it easier for him to pull out of the affair fog. When I was on my way to rejoin my husband, she sent me several crazy sounding messages, which I read between flights, telling me that he needed to get out of Tennessee, and that she was "calling the law" on both of us. Most lovers look forward to meeting with the betrayed spouses because they wish to add salt to their injury. When you have a PI on your corner, he will ask you to stop shadowing her or tinkering with her email etc. A person who doesnt live in reality. Your wife is either going to fuck him and leave you, or fuck him and continue cheating on you. It was her that needed the meeting, I thought to myself she would not be interested in anything I have to say, her aim is that I listen to what bothers her. OK, so I realize youre probably in a very emotional state right now, and thats justified. But really, your wifes lovers are not the people with If you do not respect yourself then who will? Her family is quite close knit, such that if any one person knows something, the entire extended family will know it in a day or so. And that was that. So I answered the call that night and two hours later it was all over. At that point, you have 90% of the battle won. Ive had to live with that dude in my life for over a decade told not to confront because of the kids. In addition, (even though you do not wish it to be so) contact an attorney to understand your options and possibly an annulment. Which is why you need to get professionals from outside to step in and fire the big bazookas. This should not be and I will try to avoid Plus, my husband is a photographer and I have his photos of her too. Confronting her would only bring more conflicts into our marriage thereby creating distance between me and my husband. Im so sorry to hear things ended up this way. jesus My friend you are in big time denial. Like it has ended. with his or her lover? They were married for 17 years and he died of stage 4 lung cancer at age 60. Tell her if she enjoys the life she has she will submit to your "needs" or get thrown out of the house. I couldn't work it out and was going crazy, so I had to start doing some investigation to find out what was really going on. Worked in my case, but I get why you'd advise against it. He naturally attributed the initiative in the affair to my wife, while she attributes it to him, but how can I decide who's accurate about that? lol! Your confrontation is fresh conversational content for your husband and his affair partner. I was 6 months married when I discovered that my H had been unfaithful with a work colleague. My H is pursuing healing, our marriage is fully restored and thriving, we are living our best lives. This is the way mine went down . Dont ever contact the ow . Your wife had a 20 year affair, and you believe it was none of her fault? Before I found out the truth we had a long talk and I said she could tell me anything, and that we could work it out. Sorry, but better to find out now that she is what she is than 10 years down the road. Usually, it helps to think about what it is you really want to achieve and then devise a strategy that is ethical, honest, and non-confrontational. Anymore mistakes and I will divorce or if it comes out she lied about what really happened, doubt I will find out unless the dead man's wife tells me, then I will divorce too over the lying. What about telling the affair partner's spouse if the motive for doing so is to clear your conscience morally and being truthful? My husband told me half the truth, she told me the rest in the hope Id kick him out. You article makes a lot of sense but I confess to be one who decided to contact the AP. You deserve never to have to go through it again and the assurance that it will never happen again. Because she will turn the tables on you and claim she can't trust you because you snooped. She has been my best friend for over a decade, and has given me beautiful children, whom I adore. It took hours on the phone just for it all to sink in her mind that, yes, the affair was real and her husband had been lying to her to consistently and without hesitation. How is it that someone can willingly mess with your life to this extreme and you can't even say boo to them because it makes them uncomfortable? Expose the affair to the OM's wife or girlfriend 4. And her family is fairly traditional, and I feel would look extremely negatively upon her for a very long time if they knew shed had an affair. For the last few weeks, Ive been sitting on this evidence, but tonight I finally confronted her, literally just a couple of hours ago. The best person to face if such a situation arises is my husband. Designed specifically for wayward spouses, Hope for Healing is a supportive, nonjudgmental environment for you to heal and develop empathy. For some, it will be driven by a need to get the compulsion out of their head. Have you watched those recovery programs? I sent him a letter warning him to never contact her again. My H and her had very similar personality. I cannot confront my husbands lover because I have no business with her. My initial contact with my wife's AP was to let him know the gig was up. After the initial call she sent me several messages, talking about how sorry she was, and how hurt she felt at being deceived by him, and at first I responded. You may want to express your hurt and sense of betrayal and tell them what a terrible human being they are. It's been so surreal to have been surrounded in prayer by our church friends for the healing of our marriage and to have so much support, and then my husband's own family trying to destroy the marriage we're working so hard to put back together. His annoyance crossed the threshold when he saw the man responsible for everything on one of the channels. Her husband and her husband's lover promise her that they won't see each other again after she discovered their relationship. He denied it at first but when faced with the undeniable evidence I presented to the pastor he confessed, said he was sorry (to the pastor - never to me or my wife) for what he had done, and that was that. I wonder if you read the replies there. It really is the worst! And then she sent another message that she would be happy to meet to set the record straight. Truth About Deception back to our home page. Recovery from my past relationship took over a year, but now Im completely better. WebTheres no point in confronting those lovers. They didnt decide to wreck your marriage. We all live in the same city..a small one..ugh! The shocking twist to this story is that the purported man is not only a coworker, After 3 years, I still cant sleep and I think a healthy man to man is in order. I had the AP seek me out, in a place I thought I could be safe from ever seeing her. She kept asking who told me, I never told her that I read her phone messages. How fabulous. Always a way out. If the roles were reversed do you honestly think your wife would be so accepting as you have been? You really need to let go of this whole thing. Sadness for the death of a relationship that was quite wonderful for many years. Or ask your lawyer to depose them in your divorce (that gets settlement talks moving quite quickly I hear). I cant fight a woman because of a man-Rachael Oni. If you need more information about the affair(s), hire a private investigator or become a computer snoop. Maybe I am a wimp, I'm here for advice and I can't help the way I feel. To outsmart her and pretend, while your team gets on her case. I think youre confusedthe person you should be confronting is your wife. She is the one who is cheating, she is the one who has to accountable. T Your role during all this would be to stay calm, to the point of appearing dumb and naive to your wife. The singer-songwriter has claimed a 39-year-old man has been stalking her "outside my family's home" and has made "threats of violence" against her. He didn't stand up for us. Turns out my wife is co-dependent and her AP is a malignant narcissist; she was drawn to him like a moth to a flame. Also definately dont tell how you know - it's none of her business and it's imaterial anyway plus it just gives her a chance to turn things on you. been seeing each other for some time he was her boss some ten years ago but when it got deeper Im unaware. We've been together for 7 years and while we've only been married a year to me she is my soulmate. only to destroy our Xmas. Sometimes separtion is whats best for the child. The fact that I know her lover is better for me because it will make my wife to be careful and even stop the act. Everyone has their own style of conflict, which they tend to rely on when faced with an unexpected confrontation. It only causes heartbreak for you. Nobody and I repeat nobody respects a doormat. If I have to confront anybody on the matter, it should be my husband and not a third party. We verbalize happy and unhappy and we talk more. Moving On: It'll help the two of you communicate in effective ways and find answers as to why the affair happened - in a much healthier way than contacting the affair partner. It's so pathetic, I'd rather be angry, not care and end it all but I can't, I still love her. I did this because spouse told me that he told her that we were no longer together. Maybe you agonized about doing this. I know that if I were in her shoes, If she didnt know my spouse and I were together and found out he had been lying not only to her but his wife and child, I would never want t anything to do with the guy ever again. Doing that wouldnt make a difference Eseiegbe Efe. Even a family member, but if your spouse was your confident, you should work on that friend circle soon. He just needs to do it. Probably not. I'm sure the tellers had their antennas tuned all the way up since we were discussing infidelity and different ways to respond. As a result we dont talk, perhaps this is for the better.why do I need two faced people around me and my children. She had actually called me several times over the course of the affair. Recovery took a long time, but now we are getting better. So what about those of us whose AP's are still hanging on through other family members? 2018 Truth About Deception, Examples of contacting the other person . Everything went down just like the post mentioned. I have been in a similar situation like this before. Just what I needed to hear. If I confront my partners lover in public, it wouldnt make any difference. What youre going through, is called the dreaded grief cycle. Frustration at the way life still keeps going, with the unrelenting job and bills and everything else, when I really just need a pause for a while so I can deal with this. That's how she met my husband. She was sick to her stomach. I will not fight for anything or give any reason to do that. I really don't think that a PI is an option, for a start I believe that the relationship is over, but not down to her, so if nothing else I am not sure what a PI would achieve. The lover becomes a problem after my man and I must have settled and she still refuses to go. And it might also be a pack of lies. She basically wanted to discuss two things. I think we have to clear the air. He is committed, I thank God he had awakening from this terrible mistake. This site is not intended to provide and does not constitute medical, legal, or other professional advice. just stop! Which brings us to the other reason you should not confront the affair partner 2. How i regret this contactseveral times. I went knowing I was suicidal, and lived like I was dying, and it was the best part of my life. I need to talk to my husband and sort out issues with him. My wife has been acting very strangely, very distant over the last month, saying that she is confused and doesn't know what she wants from life. My lover's wife ended the conversation by telling me how much she hated me and couldn't think of another person in the whole world that she despised more than me. The law states that if you contact somone more than one time and they don't want to her from you because it makes them feel uncomfortable or bad about themselves it can be looks at as a " course of conduct" and you can be issued a warning. It seemed before that you were a boat of the rough seas, shoveling water out from the boat as more spilled aboard. Theyre the chumps, they made their choices and have to live with them. Out of embarrassment, your spouse may grow defensive and try to minimize the problem or may even try to shift blame for his or her actions to you: There wouldnt be a problem if you werent so paranoid. Because of the unpredictability of confrontation, many spouses choose not to confront, even after they have seen early warning signs. Obviously, she has her own demons to battle. Before using the site, please read our Privacy Policy and Terms of Use. You need to be honest, upfront, and confront her with what you know. They spoke in a similar way. It made things a lot worse in life. I had to realize WHY he wanted out and forgive him to move on. Me? What do you think she would do if you were having an affair? Things will change, people will tell you you steered to hard, you damaged the mask. You have to know who you are and what you can handle. Do NOT confront your sweet wife with anything. They may be crazy Safety first. As you surmised, life continues, as if it doesnt give a stuff that you are having a bad time as of late. If she is Women have a way to keep their affairs hidden (though you did good to unearth it in time). This should not be and I will try to avoid it. And so forth. But she is liking photos his cousin is putting up of them fishing. If you know the other person, you may feel compelled to tell them that you know about the relationship and that their dirty little secret is out. I need him to know for me. Ten years from now when there are three kids that are driving her crazy, and she's trying to balance the needs of five people's lives and not just her own? Think about yourself man, it's all you can do. It doesnt really matter if you confront the (lovers!). Like Robert said it really can create more issues and its not a fact that youll prove your Don't make me explain it to you. It was true, I DID have to have them. In the first case, desperate people can do desperate things. But a ship is not built to last, it it built to endure. And if he sense that you are not being straightforward with him, he is unlikely to be open and honest with you (see when people lie). I have fantasized about that, but what is the best thing to say to her, if anything? I atoned for my actions. Your funeral. I'm not sorry I did, but it probably wasn't the smartest thing I've ever done. She didn't say anything about the affair. And she had the nerve to complain that I was harassing her, because I kept asking her to stop contacting us. The world is still spinning. He was suspicious of her acts but never in his wildest of dreams he had thought that situation could be this much worse. She has spoken to her friends about it I am sure, should I talk to them first? If these women didn't respond, then I would have moved on and dealt with what I knew to be true for me. This material, and other digital content on this website, may not be reproduced, published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed in whole or in part without prior express written permission from PUNCH. The marriage is between my husband and me. Don't let this woman use you as a doormat or she will cheat on you again. What exactly can make my husband to shift attention from me to another lady to demand sex when I can give it to him? What happened with you two? It hurts now, to be forced to fill the separation and see more than a bland life thrown at you without choice, but YOU can fill that hole with something new. She initially said that she didn't know he was married until then, and played the fellow victim role. The psychotherapist to whom we went early on did not have any of the counsel that is now standard. What she is doing is her problem, not yours. But while confronting the other woman/man may bring about a temporary sense of satisfaction, long term it probably does little to help resolve the roll out! It will make me feel like I am not capable of meeting her needs. You are spirally completely out of control here. And in the other case, narcissistic people don't think the rules apply to them -- and that doesn't stop at poaching your spouse. I have waited a year and have given it a lot of thought. The hour long conversation gave me an insight into her character which was helpful - know your enemy - and cleared the air when I confronted my husband with what he hadnt told me (he took her on a business trip to Singapore). Its her shame and her disrespect that got you guys into this situation. Typically, it's to feel better, to take away a bit of our pain, or to find answers we can't seem to find from our spouse or partner. I calmly told him never to speak to my wife again. They don't care that my husband's affair with her caused him to lose his 17-year ministry career or that it did permanent damage to our marriage and his relationships with our girls. Logically, I know she's crazy and was grasping at straws trying to "win." of which is counseling (see counseling resources). Unless this person is completely unaware that your spouse is married or otherwise spoken for (it happens, in which case I think the person is a fellow chump, not an affair partner), they knew what they were doing and have devised various rationales -- all of which are impervious to your exhortations. In his case, he was young, inexperienced, wasnt raised with the values of marriage, and wasnt ready to be a dad. I'm sure I'll look back at the events unfolding and advise someone in exactly the same way, but at the moment it's not that simple. They might. If she INSISTS on evidence, ask her why she needs to see the evidence. Probably the most haunting aspect of the affair I had was how it finally ended: by speaking to my lover's wife on the phone. I did confront her. You are no longer a husband, but an ex. Some people respond by backing down, some people respond by attacking, and some people will try to avoid the confrontation She is cheating within 1 year and you have no kids. Over analysing this is doing my head in - I need to take action, however painful. What would you do? But damn if you cant make your own meaning out of it. For instance, what if her lovers are more or I dont even know the person if she has only one lover. Anyway , He did lie about most everything that I ask about and said he couldn't remember any details . Letting the cheater have the affair partner. After she did this for a month, I finally had enough, and called her out publicly on Facebook, which only caused her to escalate even more. The person I have business with is my husband. We dont take each other for granted as we now know what boundaries are non-negotiable. She was just trying to "rescue him." My username is signalhill84. My wife and I are doing very well but still see him all over town daily . To reclaim your self respect. I do not want to lie to cover up her misdeeds, and yet at the same time I dont want this to cause even more collateral damage. Insist on divorce? Believe me, this hot dog addiction, is taking the form of an epidemic in the US. Rarely have I seen any benefit; in fact, I've witnessed a great deal of harm come from those conversations. Readying it for sail again. Ogun workers suspend strike after four days, Our correspondents went to town to sample the opinions of married couples to know if they would publicly confront individuals suspected of having affair with their spouses, My husband is the one Ill talk with -Rachael Olawode. @manup I'm not sure how I can proceed without telling her, surely that is the next step to confront her about the affair. Making a habit of going out of the house regularly will help tremendously with depression. Did you try marriage counseling? Do you have a general question youd like to ask? The reason her job is a concern is because her lover is her boss where she works, an obvious no-no. Told her to call him and tell him HER HUSBAND wants to talk to him. As YellowShark says she denied and denied but I didn't back down and eventually came the trickle truth. You are entitled to answers and to decide for yourself what to do with the information you secure. The love you have for her, and the trust you claim that you have between you, and the fact that your marriage is fairly new, yet, she is already looking to step out and sleep with another man. As a result of their friendship with her, our children and I have cut off contact with them. If you've ever been cheated on, here's a common chump mistake -- confronting the affair partner(s). "Stay away from my wife!" When she does, I just make myself a fake profile using the name of fictional characters, and post all the details of her affair, including photos and videos she sent on her FB page, buried in comments on old posts. She asked me about particular details only a lover would know. Im often thinking of her and what I would say to her or even her husband, and I hope that reading your reply and Ricks post will help me to gently stop these thoughts as well. You! I just give you my opinion from some real life experiences. The other woman is also married. Any how. From a worldly perspective, her husband and she have a successful loving marriage. I want to slap you! I was drained and ready to move on. Thanks for listening. Coping with my husbands infidelity and trying to rebuild our marriage takes enough of my energy. I choose not to indulge or become a part of the negativity in the world. But today, one year later, her comments still haunt me, I won't lie. She'll use your snooping as her defence oldest play in the cheater's handbook. I know that sometimes in marriage distractions can set in. Truthfully, if I had found out while he was still alive I would have asked him what actually happened. Confronting her would only worsen the matter- Eunice Egwu. I learned a language and met some of the coolest friends. NEVER. Our baby is now 8 mo. (The affair is over.). She went for sympathy from her ex-husband as well as mine. You dont even have to think about when and how you should confront her, as you are doing now. But I would tell the truth, just the facts. 1. Can you imganine the drama and the extra stress? Id gone to the extremes of thinking about stepping out the back door of life, missing the two people that mattered most, but God will never give you more than you can handle. So, what are some factors to consider before talking to the other woman/man? Long ago, I was the other woman, the mistress, and the villain. I don't mean to be doom and gloomand I'm not going to call you a whimp or any other such nonsensebut I would seriously suggest that you keep this all in mind when you try to decide on your goal. I wound out about the affair about one month after he died. If its possible, I dont want to lose that. Two weeks later I drafted a letter and sent it through email. Part of HuffPost News. I didnt even have to show her the evidence. I remember commenting on your original post a while ago. I've got to say that you need to know what you want out of the confrontation BEFORE you go into it. Its normal to go mad with such painful thoughts. My husband had an affair when the kids were 8 and 13. We think they have no idea that when my husband met the AP, she was married to one man, living with another man, and getting on Ashley Madison looking for married men for sex. Ill be stooping low to confront his lover in public Kemi Faleye. Just up and moved. If you do not respect yourself then who will? Do not upset the poor girl. Copyright 1997-2022 LoveShack.org. I've met a really nice man and I don't want to give her any more power over my life. She denied knowing he was ever married (lie) and blamed everything on him. "Be there" for someone that wants to be with another person? b) Making point a) above, redundantwherein you and your attorney so shame her with a few select documentary evidences of her picadilloes (promising her that a much larger cache evidence is available with your attorney), that she decides not to contest the divorce, and virtually signs on dotted lines. The last thing you want to do is let another person have the power to control your peace of mind. So, making contact and receiving well deserved apologies helped bring closure to this chapter in the affair and hopefully help in the healing process of my marriage. You can still be the role model your son deserves, you can still be the person you have always been and more. But it became clear that it was all a lie. Why? Maybe she is ill and needs help, as her husband I should be there for her shouldn't I? You are wondering if she will get banged by that dude today or not. 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